Are we really over it ?

There a lot of time this conversation going on wit me and some of my friend about after we get break up with the one we love , thing was going weird from strong person to the weak one and later in the day you healing to become strong again . this is start here on how it actually happen . Lot of time me and my close friend talk about this . like we both thing we are always down for new thing new relationship and stuff like that but what actually mean ? are we really open it ?

that really happen to us when we are healing from something we think that we are ready but deep down are we really ready ?

we might enjoy our life a lots and doing thing what we love and do but deep down . we still not sure who are we should be in our life and who we are allowing .

the thing i actually want to know here are we still afraid ?

Or we haven't meet our soul mate yet ??

Let us know how do you think about this issue anyone face the same problem

PS : it is not my story or anything but i just want to know for a friend of mind been there and we have talk about it , and i actually want to know and help them and also want to know more about this topic